Coaching

Why Consistency Matters More Than Perfection in Achieving Success

In a world that glorifies perfection, it’s easy to feel like you have to get everything right to succeed. But here’s the truth: success isn’t about flawless execution—it’s about showing up consistently, day after day. Consistency is the quiet force that turns small actions into extraordinary outcomes, and it’s far more powerful than chasing perfection. […]

Ignite Your Potential: Why Accountability Fuels the Fire of New Skills

Learning something new is exciting. Whether it’s mastering a fresh skill, diving into a course, or embracing a new strategy, it’s easy to feel that initial spark of motivation. That spark, however, is just the beginning. If you want it to grow into a blazing fire of progress, there’s one thing you absolutely need: accountability. […]

Tools Aren’t the Answer—Accountability Is

We live in a world of endless tools, systems, and strategies promising to make us better, faster, and more efficient. From high-tech apps to sleek software, these shiny objects catch our attention with the allure of success. But here’s the truth: without accountability, these tools are just sitting on a shelf, collecting dust. Tools Don’t […]

The Price of Greatness Is Accountability

We all dream of achieving greatness, whether it’s in our careers, relationships, or personal goals. But there’s a hidden truth about greatness that many people shy away from: it comes at a cost. And that cost is accountability. What Does Accountability Really Mean? Accountability isn’t just about taking the blame when things go wrong. It’s […]

Insights From Coaching Agents For Over 18 Years

Coaching and training real estate agents as a Principal Broker and Director of Sales is much different than coaching agents that really want it. Agents who have it pushed on them are less open. Agents who seek it out are more likely to listen and do the work. Real estate is like a maze. When […]

Why We Overthink

I was driving across town for a first date when a terrible bout of overthinking hit me. The girl I was going to see was friends of friends. I had seen her at at least three group get togethers in the last year. I began to wonder what would happen if we started dating and […]

The Disciplined Agent

Real estate is about to shift gears. Big time. Only the disciplined will survive. We all wanted agents to be more professional, right. Much like any genie, we got the wish fulfilled but not how we wanted. We have 1995 sales volume but with twice the agents out there, but not for long. If you’re […]

Kobe Or Shaq?

While both had superstar careers, they had different strategies to success. Shaq worked hard enough to be better than his peers. Kobe worked to be the best version of himself. Both wanted championships but each had a different benchmark. Shaq was motivated externally and Kobe was motivated internally. Shaq hated practice and his free throw […]

The Stockdale Paradox

Here’s what they learned from former Admiral and Prisoner Of War on dealing with unknown. Admiral Stockdale was a POW for 8 years and had an interesting opinion on why he made it through 8 years of captivity when others didn’t. Most anyone facing unknown and turbulent circumstances looks to figure out when those circumstances […]

15+ NAR Settlement Predictions From My Broken Crystal Ball

“You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end—which you can never afford to lose—with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.” – Admiral Stockdale, former Prisoner of War for 8 years. I learned about The Stockdale Paradox when COVID happened. It’s a way […]

Quit Fighting Psychology

One day, my entire group got “tricked” by psychology (and some magic) and I didn’t know whether or not to tell them what was happening. At that moment, it made me very aware that I had been fighting psychology instead of using it properly to reach people. First, let me take you back. Overall, I’ve […]

The Confidence Triangle

There are three aspects to a person’s confidence. Confidence In Yourself Let’s admit that almost no one can truly know the appropriate level of confidence they should have in themselves. We lie to ourselves either embellishing how good we are or minimizing how good we are. 80% of drivers think they are better than average. […]

The Habit Mirage

It’s time for a wake up call on habits. We often hear about turning challenging tasks into habits, like cold calling, paperwork or anything else we hate to do. It sounds great in theory – make something a habit, and it becomes as easy as tying your shoes, right? But here’s a reality check: striving […]

Chreosophobia – An Irrational Fear of Dissapointing Others

Chreosophobia (pronounced “kree-oh-so-fo-bee-ah”) is an intense fear that no one talks about or explores, and it is ending real estate agents careers. While many of us are familiar with a fear of failure, this is different. The person isn’t so worried about failing themselves but it becomes almost inconceivable to fail others. “Chreos” (χρέος) is […]

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